How can i get soft hair because i have really thick black hair?

I have thick and rug black hair and i want to get soft hair because of my head shape and my thick hair i look retarted i need to alter one thing and the other one is impossible. So i wanna know if i could get softer hair? is there any techniques or any products out there to help me get softer hair

How can i get soft hair because i have really thick black hair?

I have thick, 1'6"/45cm long hair, and it's soft as feathers. When I was 7, I stopped using a blow dryer, and decided to air dry my hair ( I also don't use hairspray FYI).

When you just get out of the shower, comb it right a way. Then when it's just about to get dry, comb it again. Of corse, in some circumstances, you would have to use a blow dryer. But, reducing the use of your blow dryer would let the hair time to heal from the heat damage.

How can i get soft hair because i have really thick black hair?

deep condition it.

you can buy deep conditioner at a salon

or ulta.

How can i get soft hair because i have really thick black hair?

a relaxer...but it'll screw up the texture of your hair for life

it's much safer to do what the girl above me said...condition it

How can i get soft hair because i have really thick black hair?

Change your shampoo and it CAN change.

How can i get soft hair because i have really thick black hair?

cholesterol Hair treatment.

How can i get soft hair because i have really thick black hair?

ok i think that the best brand name for shampoo and conditioner that works really REALLY well on me (for making my hair really REALLY soft) would be - SleekLook smoothening system by Matrix. thats the best! ok good luck!